Have you seen these headlines? Simplifying Your Life, Retire in Your 30’s, or Live Like a Minimalist?
Only in the last few years have I learned what simplifying, minimizing, and the FIRE movement, is all about. I’m so glad I explored these topics as they’ve positively changed our lives considerably. Bringing less stress and more joy, less stuff and more freedom, less unhealthy habits and more pleasure, and even mo’ money but fewer problems.
I’ll explain a bit. In March 2013, John and I got married. It was the third time for both of us. Yes, the third time – for both of us – please #dontjudge #thirdtimesthecharm. While our lives are nowhere near perfect, in these past four five years we’ve experienced and accomplished much.
With a bit of effort, we’ve progressed significantly towards simplifying and improving our:
- Food habits – being more aware of what we put into our bodies for our overall health and energy, thereby losing weight and improving how we look and feel
- Fitness habits – finding what works for us, to increase our movement, enjoy greater function and stamina, have better bodies and more fun
- Home and space – minimizing things in our home and life and experiencing more choice, less chaos, and more significant happiness
- Financial habits – increasing our earnings, eliminating debt, growing our savings and investing for our future
Simplifying Nutrition & Learning to Eat Real Food
Four Five years ago, I was a bit overweight, suffering almost daily from migraine symptoms – headaches, dizziness and vertigo, brain fog, nasal congestion, and more – as well as experiencing digestive issues and joint pain. I had little energy and just felt blah most of the time. While I was not on any prescription medication, I often took over-the-counter pain, sinus, or allergy relief meds.
John was on high blood pressure medication and cholesterol-lowering drugs, he too was slightly overweight, with low energy levels and achy joints.
I believe that the greatest gift you can give your family and the world is a healthy you. – Joyce Meyer
We didn’t think we ate a lousy diet per se, but we did eat out many nights, used some processed foods to fill our diet, drank a bit too often and I still had a sweet tooth.
Eliminating processed foods, gluten, and dairy, and eating real food – mostly organic – prepared at home was truly transformational for us.
Today, we are both at our ideal weight, John lost 15 pounds and me almost 25lbs., and we maintain our current weights fairly easily. John is off all medications. I very rarely have any migraine symptoms. We feel better, have more energy, and enjoy eating delicious, real food, while still enjoying the occasional libation, red wine, or craft beer.
Simplifying Exercise, Moving More & Having Fun
We’ve done indoor rock climbing, running, walking, strength training, kayaking, hiking, bowling, and golf – yes those last two count. We enjoy some more than others, have dropped a couple, completed a half marathon – #ourtimesucked but #wefinished.
Hearty laughter is a good way to jog internally without having to go outdoors. – Norman Cousins
Strength training, mostly with simple body weight exercises, and distance walking remain our staples. Golf, hiking, and kayaking are limited due to Michigan weather. Unfortunately, shoulder injuries for both of us sidelined our rock climbing adventures – our favorite activity – but we are still hoping to get back to it someday soon.
With continuous exercise habits that we genuinely enjoy we have transformed our bodies, eliminating body fat and increasing lean muscle. Now we have better muscle strength, energy levels, range of motion, flexibility, and endurance than we did four five years ago.
Simplifying Home & Life Towards Minimalism
Not only did we get married in the last four five years, but we also experienced some ‘life stressors’ if you will, including:
- Moving twice – buying one home, purchasing another and renting in-between
- Changing jobs – each of us twice, and me leaving mine in Feb. 2018
- Losing a parent – his mom and my dad
- Gaining a roommate – my mom
- Buying a 2nd home – for mom to spend the winter months and for our future retirement
- Becoming accidental landlords – renting to relatives
- Becoming Grandparents – exciting and wonderful, but still a little stressful (how am I this old?)
All of these things, and other things I’ve probably forgotten chosen to forget brought many emotions and often time’s great turmoil. In efforts to cope with the often-compounding stress, I read numerous blogs and books on stress-reduction, minimizing, and simplifying life.
I desired the elimination of all the unnecessary from our lives to embrace and experience more of the good. Through great determination, we’ve given away or donated lots and lots of clothing, books, furniture, decorative items and household goods. We’ve also up-cycled other items and avoided buying/adding more ‘material things’ to our home.
We’ve found an endless amount of good coming from these efforts. While we still have some clutter, packed boxes and other non-essentials to eliminate, we’ve come a long way in reducing our ‘stuff.’
Simplifying Finances & Minding the Gap
The start of our new financial journey involved changing jobs, increasing education, and hustling on the side which boosted our earnings. With focused concentration, we spent mostly on needs versus every want and eliminated all non-mortgage debt.
With these practices, we widened the ‘gap’ between our earnings and spending every month.
Saving and investing the gap, increasing our retirement contributions, purchasing a sensible home, obtaining a 15-year versus 30-year mortgage, doing lots of DIY home maintenance and improvements, and selling our beloved Jeep Wrangler to drive older non-sexy vehicles, increased our net worth considerably.
In a nutshell, with all of the above (and some profitable stock market growth), in four five years we’ve:
- Eliminated all non-mortgage debt – over $90k paid off
- Established an emergency fund equal to 6 months of expenses
- More than doubled our retirement savings
- Increased the value of our primary home almost 30%
- Purchased a 2nd / future retirement home
- Purchased a rental property
- Improved total net worth 200%
So much is possible (in a relatively short amount of time) with focus, determination, and consistency. I hope a bit of our story will inspire you. And I hope that if you aren’t already, you soon will take simplifying steps to eat better, move more, and mind the money gap.
Please join us and begin – or go further in – simplifying your life. With minimalization come great rewards. Eat real food, be active, and start on your path to financial independence. Experience your own positive physical and fiscal transformations.
What have you simplified or what are you hoping to simplify in your life?
Erik @ The Mastermind Within says
Wow Amy, very impressive. $90k in debt is nothing to scoff at, but you also went further and have an emergency fund and started saving more for retirement! AWESOME!
I completely agree with your last statement – extreme focus and desire can move mountains – I’m thinking of quitting my job in May and starting an online business – time will tell if this is a good idea or not!
Amy says
Thanks Erik. We’ve been fortunate and disciplined to make it happen.
It can be tough for some to not stay stuck on the ‘desire’ part. Glad to hear you are working towards something. Good luck with the business idea! Let me know how it goes.
Thanks for stopping by today.
Four Pillar Freedom says
Spending on needs instead of every fleeting want is definitely a game changer financially, I’ve learned to embrace this way of living as well. What’s funny is the less I spend, the less stress I have. I think this goes for other areas outside of finance as well – the more simple things are, the easier life tends to be 🙂
Amy says
Good to hear! Glad you’ve reaped the benefit of less stress as it can sure wreck havoc on us both physically and mentally. And I completely agree – simplicity tends to make life easier 🙂
Thanks for the visit & the comment!
James says
Great approach to life. I’ve long maintained that total well-being and happiness involves trying to do at least one thing each day to improve in four areas: fiscal fitness (saving/investing/reducing debt), physical fitness (exercising/improving diet), mental fitness (training the mind/learning), and spiritual fitness (focus on relationships with self and family/friends).
Amy says
Thanks James. I couldn’t agree more with your mantra! It looks like you are doing quite well with it and it’s something I pursue everyday as well. I appreciate you stopping by and thanks for the comment.
Song says
My husband and I are definitely on the more minimalist side. When we shop we always ask ourselves, is this a need or a want? I also enjoy doing an annual home cleanse, where I throw away things we have not used in the year to cut down on clutter.
We’re currently working on simplifying and improving our eating habits 🙂 I look forward to trying some of your healthy recipe out!
Amy says
Hi Song, excellent that you ask yourselves that! Gotta love a good clutter cleanse 🙂
Good to hear! Perhaps this article may help.
Thanks for stopping by. I’ll be adding lots more recipes soon.
Mrs. Groovy says
Great approach to life, Amy. You are one disciplined lady! Of all the changes you made, to me what would be most complex is how you eliminated foods from your diet. It’s one thing to get rid of processed, gluten, or dairy (or sugar, like Mr. Groovy has, for the most part except on Saturdays, LOL) but to do all three? Very impressive.
Amy says
Thank you Mrs Groovy! It wasn’t always easy but the motivation to reduce the migraine symptoms kept me going. Eventually, the cravings went away, we established a great routine for grocery shopping, meal prep, cooking, etc., and it eventually became easy-peasy for us. We had eliminated almost all sugar a few years ago – using Stevia instead – so it was very easy to eliminate it completely too. It’s been so worth it!
Thanks for stopping by today! 🙂 Remember to let me know when you head to Michigan so I can share some Traverse City or Mackinaw Island info.
dave says
I love the Zen aspect of your post and overall blog. It is much easier to reach FI if your whole life is in balance. If you eat well, exercise, balance work/play, get proper rest, and embrace minimalism, it would be hard to lose.
Amy says
Thank you, Dave. Yes, that’s it exactly!
I appreciate you stopping by and for the kind words. It’s nice to hear you enjoy the site. Thanks!
Reid @ Wealth Rehab says
Love this! I am working on doing the same. Spending less and saving more. Thanks for being so transparent. Your story is very encouraging. Look forward to hearing more in future posts.
Amy says
Thank you Reid! Keep your focus on your goals and you will definitely get there. I appreciate you reading and commenting.