Spring finally arrived in Michigan, wahoo! It always feels like a long winter to me, but with snow in late-April this year, winter felt extra long. The feel of the sun on your skin after cold and gloomy days is so welcome. Things feel new and exciting in the spring. You’re ready for a change.
My husband enjoys being outside, and he often walks the property in the winter months. But once the weather gets above 50 degrees, it’s like letting a new puppy out of their crate. He’s rushing outside to play in the yard, tackle a project or just enjoy the fresh air. He no longer feels stuck and embraces the change!
Spring, A Time for Change?
Spring is an excellent time of year to clean house – including your financial house – and to create. Create to-do-lists of home projects, create flower and vegetable gardens, create plans for summer vacations, and so much more.
For many of us, spring also seems to be a time to reflect on the ill-fated decisions of winter.
You might find yourself cursing your summer wardrobe for shrinking over the last season. Or growling at credit card debt because you still haven’t paid-off what was spent during the holiday season.
But what’s done is done. Now it’s time to get serious and do something positive for your health and finances instead of beating yourself up. But don’t go and make yourself empty promises though!
If you’ve been inactive the last 4-6 months (or years), you aren’t going to start running six days a week starting tomorrow. You’ll need to ease into it, so you don’t get hurt, burned out, and frustrated.
Creating a habit of exercise takes a bit of time and persistence. But being active daily is one of the best practices to have and well worth the effort. For not only what it does for your physical health but also your mental health too.
Of course, those summer clothes didn’t shrink on their own. Nor did your lack of activity probably cause their tight fit. Most likely your diet the last few months (or years) is also part of the cause. And it will take time to fix too.
Drastically cutting calories and swearing off alcohol for a month isn’t going to bring you lasting results. And it sure isn’t the best lifelong diet for you. So don’t fall for the latest fad diet promising 10lbs of weight loss in two weeks. Instead, learn a bit about nutrition and make healthy food choices.
Knowing what to do isn’t enough though. You gotta wanna.
Do You Wanna?
Just as we know we should exercise and eat a healthy diet, we also know we should probably avoid debt and save for our future. But until we want to pay off credit card debt for good, or max out our 401k and Roth IRA, we won’t make plans to do so.
So how do you go from knowing what’s sensible, to wanting to do it too?
Just like everything else, it’s personal. We think differently, learn differently, and we’re motivated differently. And we all might have a different reason for why we want to do things.
It’s helpful to start with identifying your own reason for making a change you believe is important to you. And then creating a plan that is doable.
Some of us might be motivated by the benefits of exercise and plump retirement accounts. Others find motivation by considering the detriments of a high-fat, highly processed food diet. Or no emergency fund, lots of debt, and a sudden job loss.
So you figure out what works best for you. If the transformation stories of others motivates you, read or watch health or financially related success stories.
Find Your Way
If you’re someone who’s driven to action instead, hearing about the downsides of being overweight and broke, there’s no shortage of statistics and reading material to help you too.
Or perhaps partnering with someone else for accountability is the right motivation for you.
Exercise and socializing together work for many people. While I do sometimes like to walk alone to think or listen to music or podcasts, I really enjoy walks with my husband or my mom too.
If you don’t know yet what style works best for you, try different methods and see what sticks. If the way you are doing things isn’t working, change it. Keep investigating and trying new things until you find something that works.
Did you try a running program last year and hate it? Try cycling or hiking this year instead. Or perhaps softball, volleyball, or yoga is more for you. Try a variety of activities until you find the things you like best.
Did you cut out all non-essential spending but really miss your once-a-month movie date night? Then find a way to work back into the budget the things you value.
Change requires both physical and emotional energy and determination, mostly at the beginning until you’ve established a new habit and routine. Once you are doing what you desire, maintain it on a regular basis until the new action becomes a habit.
If you’re someone who gets bored quickly, it’s important to keep things fresh by trying a new exercise routine, a unique style of cooking, or perhaps a new budgeting method.
What doesn’t work? Doing nothing.
I hope you find plenty of time to create and enjoy this new season. Finding time to change what’s needed, building healthy habits and improving your wellness.
Me? I’ve got a few home projects to tackle, some more decluttering and minimizing to do, business projects, and healthy activities to restart now that it’s warm enough for me outside.
Embracing Change and a Life More Zemplified
Updated: 05/11/2019
Mrs. Defined Sight says
Good Morning Amy! Happy Spring to you!
I could not hold back the giggles when you referred to your hubby as a puppy..oh, boys…same thing going on here x2 with my little one! Well, at least they both crash fairly early at night now. haha!
Yes, in the 13 days of summer it seems we get – my to-do list gets really long! Goal: trying hard not to be a ping pong ball and finish one job before moving on to the next.
Just like I do at work – create a list of to-dos, and prioritize it, I need to be doing that at home too!
Vacation and work travel plans this summer are lined up…unfortunately, this may cause a few of those things on the to-do list to backup. But, got to take those vacations!
Have a great day!
Amy says
Hi Mrs. DS, Happy Spring! Boys! 🙂
I’m glad you’re prioritizing some vacation time amongst all the to-do items. A ping pong ball is a great metaphor for how it can be. Good luck on avoiding that this year.
Enjoy the rest of your week!
AdventureRich says
I am constantly re-finding what to do, then trying to do it! For me, I think this will continue to be a lifelong pursuit (in a good way!) due to changing circumstances, situations and perspectives 🙂 Great advice!
ps- I love the spring photos! We still have snow on the ground but it is melting fast with the 50-60 degree days!!!
Amy says
Thanks, Mrs. AR! I’m so happy to see the sun and the flowers!
Accidental FIRE says
I will again focus on trying to throw out or sell two things each day that no longer bring me value . Every time I start over I do it for a while then I fall off the wagon. But I will keep trying, thanks for the reminder
Amy says
One step at a time gets us there. Thanks for stopping by!
laurie@thethreeyearexperiment.com says
Amy, I love your idea of making changes that work for you. I am someone who can be dogmatic–we “should” be doing XYZ, but it turns out XYZ makes us miserable. For example, not ever eating out is not something I enjoy. But, eating out all the time makes me sad, too, for different reasons. So we’re working on finding the optimal balance. And as much as I’d love to be a tennis player, etc., my consistent exercise is running. That’s just what I do, year in and year out.
Something about the Spring always makes me want to buy clothes! Does that happen to you? Luckily I’ve figured this out about myself so I hit my local thrift shop or consignment store and get my new-clothes fix that way. I’m glad Spring has finally sprung in Michigan! The snow’s almost gone in NH and I’m just about to believe that nature has more colors than just black and white! 🙂 Happy week!
Amy says
Thanks, Laurie. Yes, I think so many of us fall into the ‘should’ trap. So good that you recognize when it doesn’t work for you.
Fortunately, it doesn’t. It probably did years ago but I got over my clothes obsession quite a while ago. Great idea though on not hitting the mall to get your fix! 🙂 You should be warming up soon and seeing lots of great colors. Have a good one!
Tread Lightly, Retire Early says
Really knowing yourself is key to all things. With the right motivation, you can practically do anything. With reasons that don’t strike you, nothing might happen at all.
Amy says
Agreed! Knowing yourself takes work for some of us. 😉
Lily | The Frugal Gene says
Yes we’re having a break from the rain and even the weather man shouted that we’re going to have stunning weather this week! Time for action!!
Amy says
Yes!!!
Penny (@picksuppennies) says
“What doesn’t work? Doing nothing.” Yes. Or focusing on the wrong things. That’s very much what I blogged about today. I needed this post. Thank you.
Amy says
Ah yes, focusing on the wrong thing. Been there done that. Loved your post. 🙂
Ms Zi You says
Love the post Amy – I’m really good at knowing what I need to do, but you know, not that great at actually doing it!
Amy says
Thanks, Ms Zi You. We all need help sometimes to get from knowing to doing.
Susan @ FI Ideas says
I think this is especially important for people like me, who are no longer “spring chickens”! Seriously, I think spring is more motivating in this way than New Year’s resolutions. Spring has such an exciting promise, so invigorating.
It’s time to get out and hit the trails. We did a hike just last week in the green hills with so many leaves and wildflowers popping out. It was glorious. We’re hoping to go do that again tomorrow.
Amy says
I agree, Susan. Spring is awesome. Your hike sounds wonderful. I’m so looking forward to green! We did a short hike at the park both days this past weekend and everything is still so brown. I hope you do it again tomorrow too!
Vicki@MakeSmarterDecisions says
Great advice in this post! As others have said, I love the line about what doesn’t work… Doing nothing can’t be an option! And our husbands sound like lost brothers 🙂
Amy says
Thanks, Vicki! Yes, I look forward to them meeting some day soon. 🙂
Chris @ The WFL Project says
Lovely post and I’m envious. Rancho Mirage CA doesn’t see a big change of seasons. There still is a feeling of rebirth though as new ideas and projects seem to come up this time of year.
I’ve never visited you site before Amy – very nice place you have here. Comforting in design.
Amy says
I’ve often wondered if I’d miss the change of seasons. Probably spring and fall for sure. If I could just figure out how to limit winter to a month or two here…
I appreciate you visiting and commenting, Chris. Thank you for the kind words!
Brandi Gates says
I agree with you chris
such a amazing post as she ever did
seattlegirluw says
I’ve been fine about the exercising, but not so much about the eating well. So some of my clothes are still shrinking when I’m not looking. It’s fine and I’ll lose the weight again, but my spring change is that I need to get back into the swing of eating fewer calories and recommitting to a diet in general.
Amy says
That’s a great goal as I think eating better helps you feel better too! Let me know if I can help.
Troy Bombardia @ Bull Market says
It’s heading into fall here in Australia, but still I have a lot of new and exciting things planned! I feel like I’m trying new things so quickly, it amazes me how far I’ve come in just a few months. I think stepping back and reflecting every once in a while is a good idea.
Amy says
Ah yes, I bet fall is nice there. So great to hear, Troy! Sometimes we get so deep into what we are doing we forget to be proud of ourselves. I’m glad you can see your progress. Keep it up!
Tuppenny says
Winter has been so wet this year and so much longer than usual. Snow in SE England in April? Not normal.
Which is why I find myself carrying unwanted pounds. Hard to motivate yourself to get outdoors when it doesn’t stop raining. But I hear you, it’s my job to motivate myself and get my ‘arras in gear!
Thanks for the personal responsibility reminder.
Amy says
I hope your weather is improving and you’re able to get outside more. I’ve had to kick myself in the butt a few times as we’ve now been getting quite a bit of rain.
Mandy says
Spring was slow to show itself in KY too. It’s finally here. I’m getting back to my daily exercise, better meal planning, and some spring cleaning.
I’ve also realized over the winter that I needed a change. Financially, I can’t quit my job but I started a blog to see where the road with lead. Maybe nowhere, but it’s fun and a great outlet.
So glad I’ve found your blog!
Amy says
Hi Mandy, sorry for the delay in responding! Good to hear you are getting your routine back in shape. And congrats on starting a blog! I’ll be sure and check it out. Thank you!
Savvy History says
This is such a relaxing and affirming post to read as someone trying out new things with hobbies, money, creativity, and cooking right now. You deserve a vacation and you deserve to change things up!
I especially like this quote:
“What doesn’t work? Doing nothing.”
I feel like I made a mistake with a recent post I wrote, but I always tell myself, the biggest mistake would have been to have not tried writing something that week.
I also like your advice to try something different if you are someone who gets bored easily. I’ve moved between writing songs and writing blog posts recently. Both keep me writing and appreciating the other creative form in different ways.
Sarah says
Well said. I do see spring as a great time to make changes, especially after a winter of being cooped up. Our winters are LONG in Northern Ontario, so I especially love it when spring arrives, even if it arrives much later than elsewhere. Finding your way when tackling something is so important. What works for one person won’t work for everyone. I like the idea of trying different ways until you find the one that works for you. My family has been busy with projects this springs, things that were put off because of winter or in some cases, were put off for years and we finally found the motivation and reason to do it. Once we get going on them, it’s amazing how quickly we can work through a to-do list and it feels great.
Savvy History says
Partnering for accountability is something new I am trying. As someone hoping to peaking financially and fitness-wise as I get older, I’m really enjoying the fitness, food, and wellness aspects on your blog. I’ve always thought self-improvement should focus on far more than just finances. I joined the PF space with hopes to find well-rounded self-improvement blogs like this.
“If you’re someone who gets bored quickly, it’s important to keep things fresh by trying a new exercise routine, a unique style of cooking, or perhaps a new budgeting method.”
This really resonates with my husband and I. He loves to take on housing projects and I’ve recently taken on blogging in order to change things up. We’re trying to make sure the hobbies we chose add to our well-being (or equity) and don’t end up costing us more! We’ll see.